I have windows XP and can't download ANYTHING!!

Xolox connects to the network ok, and it searches fine to!

When i click on something to download and go to the "Transfers" icon, the item i want to download is there but underneath where it sais "Download Status" all i get is "Searching, busy1, buffer0"!!

and it stays like that for hours, sometimes the "busy 1" changes to "busy 0" but it changes back again and never downloads!!!

But when i look at my modem the lights are going crazy and if you look on the activity section on XP it shows that the modem IS recieving alot of data!!!!

I am using a 56k modem, what should the settings be?

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!