afisk -

I tried the "hold down control" thing, and everything seemed to be working, the application opened like normal, however, this error window did not appear. Yes, I was holding control the whole time, even for about a minute after the program was open and connected. Am I doing something wrong, how do I get this to work?

As far as other information about the pausing: I keep 4 connections up at a time, and have tried changing this to more or less, however this does not seem to affect the pausing. I am sharing about 400 files, mostly songs. I have observed the same thing as others regarding drops of host/available file counts immediately after a pause, however mine is a slight variation. Immediatly after my pause, the number of hosts and files jumps to a much higher number, then quickly plunges to a number much smaller than the number before the pause.