i'm so bummed!

i'm definitely behind a firewall. and there is a proxy server.

i have instant messengers working with the proxy info - including file xfers.

i can't get connected to xolox at all! i don't think that i can just ask (i'll get in trouble) for information on port# 6346 - is there a way to sniff what ports are open?

is there any way around this problem?

i tried to get limewire to work - no go either, but limewire doesn't work w/ proxies at all.

please help! xolox looks like a well thought out tool, i'm dying to get going! so frustrated!

many many thanks!