I did the "dling" thing, although I have no idea what that means, but I'm still playing the red light/green light game. I just want to connect and I've been using LimeWire for quite a while. This is a new problem. It seems to have started after upgrading. I have LimeWire Pro and am kind of po'd that I paid to be frustrated. Does someone have any other suggestions? I've been reading the posts.