Hi Petrena
Have you seen
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/showth...threadid=24819 ? I hope you weren't caught by one of these sites.
As for finding content to suit your tastes, . . . what kind of computer system and p2p client do you use? Keyword searches or the "What's New?" button using, say LimeWire, will give you a pretty good idea of what people share on the gnutella network.
Since you are seeing lots of uploads, looks like you have set up your machine well. Have you tried browsing or chatting some of those people who upload from you? This can help find similar material to your shares.
If you can't find the content you like, I'm not sure where else to try.
Cheers anyway