I guess I need someone to "lead me by the hand" through this! Frustrating indeed. I am running XP and have not been able to connect at all. I do NOT use zonealarm and the xp firewall is not enabled.

I tried to delete the user file C:/Documents And Settings/your_username/.limewire as suggested by someone in the forum, but cannot locate this file. Via "search" all I can find is .limewire Suggestions?

They also said preferences would then need to be reset. Where is this accomplished?

Any other suggestions????