Download the latest beta version of LW. I have ZoneAlarm 5.0 (it is the best software firewall) and LW has always worked fine for me. I dunno, mabey LW just isn't for you. If you have done everything you have read in these forums, than you have done all you can. I don't know what else to tell you. If you want to look for a different P2P program I reccomend
Download.com. Whatever you choose, good luck.
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