By placing the incomplete folder for downloads within the shared folders you are creating an access violation within Windows when someone tries to upload a file that you are currently downloading. Causing the original download to hang up indefinitely. Is there anyway to move the incomplete folder out of the shared folder so that people don't attempt to upload it while I'm downloading?

Or could you tell these people to add the word "incomplete" to their list of exclusions?
Or to not download a file that begins with the letter "T" and a series of numbers?
Anything would be nice, this is really annoying when trying to download large files.