I'm sorry but I still can't connect
 

I am really stupid with computers. But I've been able to download the lime wire, the the upgraded version but I still can't connect. I did all the other steps that were suggested: I did the firewall thing, the gnutella port (tcp and udp) upgrade, also the java installation. Then I restarted the lime wire and it's still says that I'm not connected to the network. My computer is set and french so it makes all of this a lot harder
please help me before I go insane
thank you