why when i try to get something my status always waiting *secs for busy....every time i try to get anything it does this and i can not get anything because of it

It is probably because you are trying to download popular files, hence the busy signal that your a seeing...kind of like all the guys that are constantly calling my daughter on the phone...and people wonder why I use cable and not DSL!!! Be patient, and you might get somewhere....also, do another search, and maybe another user who is sharing that file will show up....trying to download files that are being shared by multiple users also gives better success rates...

Good Luck, and Good Day