The subject title says it all.......I have windows XP.....and EVERY DOWLOAD I GET QUEUED......ITS MAKING ME MAD!!!!.....I have every firewall off and I know Im connected..........

When you open LW & it loads its incomplete files, all files will initially be queued. It helps to wait a few mins (depending on the no. of incomplete files you have.) Each one will in turn try to connect to any immediate sources they can locate. If after some time you still have an issue:
Using some effective search & dwnld techniques definitely helps. Here's some hints (click on link.)

If you changed any of the LW options, you might want to try the default settings.