about the people downloding from
 

okay, im downloading this donnie darko file, and there are 111 people that have the file, but im only getting 4. i dont have pro, if that makes a difference. plese help.

It sounds popular. Some their slots might be busy with other people uploading stuff. There may be some sources you might never connect to anyway. You can try searching the topic again. That sometimes helps. Also if you're sharing plenty of files that will help you to connect to some more usually. Some people filter out those that share less than a certain no.