any ideas then lotr???

Make sure your software firewall is configured to allow LW full access. Also ensure your belkin modem has UPnP enabled. If it doesn't have this option, then manual port forwarding will be required. See instructions for all of these here Connection problems? Check here first! (click on link)

Once you get this sorted out, your connection issue should be solved & it will probably also improve your downld speeds & reliability.