when i go to download a song itll say connecting for like 10 min. and say needs sources on songs with about 10-50 sources ive tried on. my internet is completely fine too.

You might be trying to download fakes. There are lots around. These are usually new releases or really popular songs with heaps of sources (100+ sometimes) but won't ever connect. Vary your search terms - look for artist or album rather than song title. Try the All Types search. Go for a file with 10 sources or less!

i do artist searches. but mostly wat i am right now is XXX and it says connecting for 15 min now i think 1 or 2 out of 10 say need more sources

Even if they're real sources, starting a new search is the way to go. Need more sources means that either the hosts have gone offline, aren't sharing that song any more or don't have any upload slots free for you.
*could you just edit out the artist name? We're not allowed to mention artists or titles because of copyright

but i mean its not the user or file its something with connection. just b.c it used to connect within 5-10 seconds.

What's your connection like (how many green bars)? Do searches come up as quickly as usual? Do you see the firewall icon (brick wall in front of the blue earth)?