all green bars but behind a wall

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I cannot direct connect. I will get the following message "your computer is behing a firewall or router"
I've allowed exceptions for windows firewall for LM.

I've tried the link to portforward.com for my router and follow the procedure; When i reach the part were i should be abble to access the router to put the LM port, i type my router ip (wich i think a succed to locate) I connect to a ##!!?# bellsouth screen instead of a westell screen(brand of my router) wich should be according POrtforward.com. i cannot then follow the procedure since the screens and the options are different.
I've called bellsouth but that wasn't helpfull either.

My system details are:
1-Windows XP
2-WINdows firewall Only
3- 504 mb of ram
4-a lot
5-dsl
6-westell 6100(c90-610030-06)
7-home
8-lm 4.12
9-bellsouth
10- test succesfull
11-no
12-no, i've always download more or less successfuly
13- yes brick wall , all the bars are green
Any help/ ideas would be great.