ok .....on my shareing folders a right clicked on one and my only one...that has all my music and things in it and whent...right click>stop shareing folder.

werid thing was the things i had in my playlist were still playing so they must be on my computer but where...
please help

The default location is usually C:\Documents and Settings\"your account name"\Shared
But see http://www.gnutellaforums.com/window...downloads.html
You could also go to LW's Tools > Options > Sharing & check the option for share downloads immediately. That might make a difference, but certainly using the browse option & locating & selecting the folder will do the trick.