Bit of a problem with connections...
 

I cant seem to hold a connection, I have even tried disabling ALL of my firewalls/protections. I run Windows 2000, with BlackIce defender behind a Lynksys 8-port "Etherfast" router. I am the Router's "DMZ" (anything its firewall would normally block is sent to me). See my attached Screenshot for a glimpse into the mayhem of ym red and grey server list... Can anyone help?

BTW: My isp is verizon, I have a Residential ADSL connection at 768(?) kbits. My dynamic hostname is Stormcrow.dnsalias.net .