update.... I uninstalled both LW and ZA as well as uninstalling my Java and installing 5.whatever. Then I reinstalled with the offline installer for LW. This worked and I could now connect. However when I reinstalled ZA it prevented connection again. I checked to make sure that ZA allowed LW through the firewall and it appears to have been set up right. Even with just disabling ZA it was blocking LW. (No, I don't have windows firewall turned on)

So now I'm back to running LW without ZA isntalled. I don't like being 'naked' like this. Any other directions to point me?