Still Can't connect with Vista

[Chintzel]

Urgh! I have read many threads about how to get Limewire to connect with Vista and am getting nowhere. I have udated Java, turned off Show Tips at start up, deleted my preferences folder, set Norton Firewall to allow limewire, and added the gnutella.net file and restarted the computer many times. I get a single bar that says "connecting" but it never connects - and no connections appear under the connection tab. Everything worked fine when I had XP! (I have no other firewall running other than Norton). I have a DSL connection via router (not wireless) and DSL modem. Any help would be very helpful!
Thanks