Thanks Hobo.....

Since my last post i have been trying to recall how to alter startup program list without manually doin each program and lol i cant remember pmsl. So heres the next best thing if anything is running in your taskbar at startup u dont want right click look for settings menu of some kind look for a line that say start at start up or initialize wiv windows blabla u get the idea and untick the offending box hehe. Iv had a quick look at the trendmicro and the only poblems i can see you having it kernal or firewall related more likely firewall as the program obviously needs to send and recieve info from ur pc. If you cant repair this problem and only IF do not use this as a alternative because of laziness as im not sure its as effective use http://www.ewido.net/en/onlinescan/
Then when uv finished that get
http://www.safer-networking.org/
http://www.avast.com/eng/programs.html
spybot seach and destroy and avast home edition REPLACE your current spyware and av with these if you have any DO NOT run them alongside each other as this can cause trouble.
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Thanks Daydo. Out of all the reply's regarding my problem you are the only one that could help. You are the reason why forums like this actually work.

No problem you are wrong however this forum has a large list of very knoledgeable people of which is ww and im virtually certain that person could have provided the help u need as could a number of other members. So next time instead of getting lathered up cos u feel underwater just say im sorry ww i dont understand please explain. Im glad u feel more in control of your problem now if ur still having difficulties after doin this mamoth task list hehe post back and if it sorts the problem post back anywayz to say so cool.
c ya.