Lost in swap from MX to Limewire

[Pakratt]

Hi all, I am actually a diehard WinMX fan but trying best to get Limewire to work, just not sure if expecting too much or simply aint configuring right. Any tips would be appreciated. Prob 1 : apparently no built in group chat rooms, so are there any chat sites that swappers tend to hang out in? As in movies only, Apps only, mp3's only, etc? Prob 2 : while uploading, I find 1 outa 5 uploads actually deserving to get, is there any way to allocate bandwith between uploads so that can put rush on ones that need? Prob 3 : I come from a "be polite and ask 1st" scenario which doesnt seem to apply with Limewire because 98% of folks I try to ask before downloading either have chat disabled, ignore it, or at best speak a language I have no clue how to respond,lol. Is this normal? No communication between the giver and getting? If so really bites, cause I've had several downloads I coulda hollered at and warned them that "only works if running XP Pro" or "that file works but really is outa date, you oughta get other one", etc. Just asking if I mite be expecting too much outa Limewire. Thanx for any tips ya'll mite have.