permanantly queued

I have a download that is 99% of 620 MB completed. For the last two days, the download status has been queued and the buffer keeps getting bigger (seams to be increasing by 1 about every hour). I deleted some of the entries in the resumeinfo.txt yesterday which reset the buffer to zero and the status to searching. Today, it is back to queued with the ever increasing buffer. I have been trying to download this file for about a month now (it must be extremely rare), so I don't want to try to start over. Also, if I try to pause it, it says switching to pause mode and never does anything else (cannot right-click and resume even though it is not frozen). Any thoughts or solutions?

System Specs
Win98 SE
AMD 1.1GHz Athlon
256 MB RAM
Cable Modem using Blackice Defender