I'd be interested in knowing which files of mine are downloaded (when and how often). If this is already possible, let me know how I'm missing it.

Thanks
Alisa

If u use Limewire go in library and click on the folder at the top there is a heading saying Uploads this shows you how many people uploaded the file from you. Its the third last heading, the second last 'hits' means how many people tried downloading the file.
I'm sorry if this is no help at all but I don't know which client you are using like peerless said we aren't mind readers or divines