i've had this connection problem for about 3 months

1.) windows xp
2.) zonealarm (and some spyware protection, spyguard, adaware, spybot)
3.) total memory: 256mb, available 23.19mb
4.) 10.5 gb available
5.) dsl
6.) speedstream 5100
7.) home


i hope i've provided everything you need..i had to have some help..i'm pc illiterate :-)

also, it's been 48 hours since i contacted limewire regarding my account being debited, and i have yet to get a response

i did update the java (thank you!!), and it seems like it might have helped..usually my browser goes down within 10 minutes of loading limewire..and it lasted a few hours yesterday..