yeh not too sure as i am a newbie as well, but in the monitor bit that means you are montioring ya uploads, why you see 3 of the same film is that there are 3 people getting the same file and they are uploading from you, don't kill them off, just leave it, ignore it, until you finish with limewire, like when you turn off comp or go out, upto you if you leave limewire running, if everyone cut eachother off, all would not get files, hope this helps, but someone might post a more technical reply, all the best
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